change of dynamics

Monday, January 02, 2012

family ♡♡♡

family ♡♡♡

A continuation of this post.

I forgot that today is a public holiday and so I am actually entitled to rot my day away uploading posts instead of doing any killjoy stuff so YAY CHOOAHQI IS HAPPYGIRLZ89 laadeedums. And taking a breather from uploading photos to post something that came into my mind yesterday while I was changing history like Winston in George Orwell's 1984 like I mentioned in this post hur.

I tweeted last night,

Reading some of the blog archives. After all these years, family is really the only constant. Much ♡♡♡

Really, after all these years, the family has been there all the way. From my prepubescent and hence pre-bitchiness days, to when I was extremely bitchy, to now where I am past the bitchy stage but when the need arises it will still STRIKE.

At my worst, I was terrible to people who dared come against me. But I think I drew the line at the family. Partly cuz they were never the cause of anything major, partly because X has had a habit from young of suan-ing me until I'm super used to it and if she's too nice I will feel weird HAHAAA backhanded compliment much, and also partly cuz if I dared to be against anyone, I'm sure there will be ten other voices telling me to shut up and know where I stand.

And while I may have made noise when young cuz when you are young everything your parents do/say is ridiculously strict, I definitely appreciate all that now. It really takes growing up to understand all the stuff you were forced to do when you were younger. If I ever have children next time, oh dear I'm sure they will go through their own hate-me stage then oops. Maybe I can then refer them to this blog, to show them that see, mama last time also like this! And it's all recorded down! It can't be that I suddenly cooked up how many years' worth of entries! Heh.

All that strict upbringing of eating whatever is on your plate = eat almost everything and not as fussy now, not being able to eat fast food all the time and as a result I have not eaten A&W okay heh = not fat like how some of the kids are these days gawd I think I will get crushed by them, taking violin/piano lessons = at least got some sense of musical talent (I use this word loosely with reference to mine; not being humble, it's a fact - yes I can read notes and I can play, but not well), going for swimming lessons = if need to save my own life or someone else's by swimming I can, forcing us to read from young = now we devour books on our own and actively search for titles to read.

Vair grateful also for the cousins who are also confidantes - X and J less now than last time, and T now more than ever. :D They are like an extension of best friends but even better, cuz you share genes and so think alike in situations and understand the same stupid jokes and laugh at the same stupid things no one else will get. Let's shout in unison, "IT'S IN THE GENES!"

More pictures from the chalet that day from EE's and S biaosao's cameras - one of the best days of 2011, without a doubt.

The brother looks so happy here.

Girrrls!

Upstairs and downstairs - this was the context of the photo. We were pointing up to those on the roof, they were pointing down at us.

Best picture of the day - J the 'wind' was blowing us three away. Hahaha.
We all look so cuckoo and carefree. Likes x100000000000000000.

Labels: Happy Occasions, Laadeedums, Pretty in Pictures, Saturday Loves, Tres Amusing

my pretty little red butterfly.
3:12 PM

psychic; prophetic

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Hello.

The name is Rui Qi (pronounced 'Ray Chee', yes 'q' has a ch- sound like that of 'church'). But I have also heard enough manglings of my name to respond to anything that you may wish to call, so you're in luck there.

The link is childish, I know. But it's stuck with me so long, I can't bear to change it.

If you're new here, I spell moi as mua, and pecah lobang as picha lobang. It's called poetic license.

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I like witty. If you are witty, I like you already.

I am agnostic.

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Being slightly narcissistic here, but these are the blog entries I like/you should read.

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family ♡♡♡
now the holly bears a berry
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theme song: Que Sera Sera
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save the day
the joys of driving
contradiction
pray
of quotes and thoughts
crossroads/catharsis
killjoy + joy
hi sir/ma'am, are you a member?
finito
scones lurveeeee
the send-off + outtakes
stream of consciousness x 7
balloons love
exhausted
celebrities galore
to come up with marvellous ideas, eat duck rice
long walks
pair of three
of music and ~~lyrics~~ PR
mish-mash
Carmen - the epitome of feminism
mind your grammar, please
zen
tres amusing
let nature take its course
知音
 sunshine after the rain
bin-isms
relationships
it's up to the Powerpuff Girls to save the day!
the perks/perils of black stockings
assortment of stuff
"endearing hug"
thinking deep thoughts
odd sort of day
the chemistry must have got to his brain
convincing writing like never before
2010 round-up
lost in translation
drink drank drunk
you believe because you believe
"love never dies"
they deserve a post to themselves
must be the funnest recess/exam week ever
Ruiqi's Sunset 21st Part II & Presents
Ruiqi's Sunset 21st Prelude & Part I
Ruiqi's Sunset 21st Part II
Ruiqi's Sunset 21st Part I
this should have been highlight of the year too, I killed a cockroach! - cooking/screaming up a storm
epiphany
it actually deserves an update, but here's letter to my 16-year-old self
the one that everyone remembers - boyfriend/husband-screening test
privacy in the online world? forget it
word of the day: exposure
maybe we should get back, to the old days
of blogging
happy birthday, you inanimate thing
of long walks and long talks
trilogy
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